Mulligan Stew

Ringing in 2012

2012-01-01T12:46:00.000-08:00

It's just another New Year's Eve... Which means fun and merriment with our neighbors/friends - who are much more like family. We celebrated with fabulous appetizers and drinks at Kerry & Dodi's house, followed by a delicious dinner, fun and games, champagne and cheers all around as 2012 began.

Here are some views from our evening!

~ My Tablescape ~

~ We played a little game with quarters... passing money back and forth around the table... too fun and a whole $6 at stake for each game. ~

~ Next we played B.S.... a fun card game where you call each other out when you think they're fibbing about what cards they are placing in the pile. Cindy won, Alyssa came in second and then Dodi. There was a lot of laughter during this game! ~

~ Apples to Apples was next. Always a crowd pleaser ~

~ When we play, we say whatever cards you won describe you. Here are our descriptions for the night... Hmm, my cards say I'm crazy! What do you think?? ~

~ The guys waiting for midnight ~

~ Alyssa, Kerry & Dodi ~

Wishing everyone a prosperous and Happy New Year!

Christmas Day

2011-12-26T13:48:00.000-08:00

Christmas day was quiet and wonderful. Our morning was spent at home where we opened presents, had breakfast, and just enjoyed each other. John had asked for only money, iTunes gift cards and salmon. Yes, I said SALMON! He loves baked salmon and wanted one all to himself. So, he got one! Along with some Ramen with iTunes gift cards attached.

~ John... Santa's Helper ~

In the afternoon we went to Richard's sisters house. Kelly & Jay made a wonderful meal of Prime Rib for all of us to enjoy! The whole family was there - almost. We were missing Holly, D.J. and Canon. I didn't take a lot of pictures - but here is what I did take!

~ Sweet Rowan coloring ~

~ Our nephew David and his beautiful wife Sara. Rowan and Finley are their children. ~

~ Richard with Rowan hiding in the background.~

~ John - taking it all in ~

~ Our little princess, Finley. She was so adorable and wanted me to take pictures of ALL of her princess accessories ~

It was a wonderful day full of family, laughter, love and excellent food. Merry Christmas to all - and to all a good night!

Christmas Eve - 2011

2011-12-25T23:28:00.000-08:00

What a lovely Christmas Eve! We usually go to a friends home but this year we decided to stay home and have a dinner party. Here are some photos of my tablescape.

Richard and me before we left for Church.

We enjoyed a lovely service at church and then headed home for our guest to arrive. I love the tradition of "Christmas Crackers", so I made sure everyone had one. Inside are little trinkets and paper crowns. Here are Alyssa, Dodi, Richard and John reading the riddles contained in the crackers. We had a lot of laughs trying to guess the answers to the riddles.

Here are Rob, Kerry and Scott being silly with their paper crowns on their heads.

Truly, it was a really wonderful evening filled with love, laughter and good food. We feasted on delicious salad, rolls, twice baked potatoes, barbecued tri-tip, salmon, broccoli and Bearnaise sauce. Dodi made a super yummy oatmeal & applesauce cake with cream cheese frosting. It was very dense and full of flavor. I went to bed with a full tummy, sore cheeks from all laughter, and a very happy heart.

Happy Christmas Eve!

Brazil Grill

2011-12-24T09:27:00.000-08:00

As our Christmas weekend began, we decided to have a small family celebration at "Brazil Grill" in Portland. Brazil Grill is a Churrasco (shoo-rah-sko) which is a centuries old Brazilian traditional cooking method. Their website says, "This unique way of roasting the meat on a special grill from Brazil conserves the natural flavor of each portion and leaves each cut full of its natural juices."

We feasted on all types of meat... to quote a friend - "the entire barnyard ended up on our table!" There was chicken, and bacon wrapped chicken, shrimp, lamb, filet mignon wrapped in bacon, beef sirloin, sausage, tri-tip, and mustard beef sirloin. There was also the MOST amazing grilled pineapple. I had read about the pineapple in reviews from previous diners - and couldn't believe it could possibly be THAT good! But, they were right... oh, so right!

In addition to all of the various grilled meats, there is also a wonderful salad bar - which contains much more than your typical salad bar items - and they also brought us a plate of amazing Beef Empanadas. Oh My! I really loved them. John, however, referred to them as Brazilian Egg Rolls. He's a funny boy!

We also had a Caipirinha cocktail which is Cachaca (Brazilian rum), sugar, and muddled lime. It was extremely tasty! We will definitely return to Brazil Grill in the future. Our very carnivorous son was in 7th heaven... but then again - so were we all! Click HERE to visit the restaurant website.

Happy Christmas Eve!

Christmas Brunch

2011-12-11T15:25:00.000-08:00

Our Christmas Brunch with Friends is becoming a tradition. Full of wonderful food - Good Times - and aching sides from all of the laughter. Today we celebrated with a recipe exchange. Hmm.. I forgot to take photos of the food. It was ALL so delicious!

My dining room and tablescape for the occasion.

Our dear friend Scott, with Richard.

Dearest friends and neighbors - Dodi, Alyssa & Kerry. They gave us the "Mulligan Family" Christmas decoration last year. You can see it HERE.

Kerry with our other great friend Rob - who ALWAYS keeps us in stitches. We all laughed so hard this morning that we had tears running down our cheeks for much of the time.

Scott insisted on taking a photo of me.

But, my child bailed long before the photo taking began. However, I was able to snap this one in his room after everyone left. There might have been some threats in order to get him to smile. At least there is now proof that he DOES live and that he CAN smile! LOL

We feasted on Chili Relleno Casserole, Bacon, Sausage, Fresh Mango's - Kiwi - and Grapes, Scalloped Potatoes with Ham and delicious Raspberry Swirl Sweet Rolls. Everything was DELICIOUS. I love when everyone brings such yummy food. We washed it all down with Bloody Mary's, Mimosa's and Coffee. I think I'm going to need to walk on the treadmill for about 4 hours today!

The Stockings Were Hung

2011-12-10T15:03:00.000-08:00

Decorating my home at Christmas time brings me great joy. Gently unwrapping ornaments and decorations from my childhood - memories each and every one. And, we make new memories too. Every year new ornaments and decorations are added!

The "Mulligan Family" decoration was a present from our dear friends and neighbors last Christmas. Each year we exchange ornaments or decorations. Love this new addition to my collection. I guess I can't get anymore kitties - because the entire family is represented here!

In the early 1960's my Mother made this Angel and Madonna for my Aunt Mary. They are made of material and Styrofoam forms. I had forgotten all about them - but last year when my Aunt was moving she asked if I wanted them. That was so kind of her. I cried when I opened the package. Such a treasure. I cherish them, AND my Aunt for wanting me to have them.

Nutcrackers - Nutcrackers - Everywhere!

Even the kitchen table got into the act this year.

Before - During - After

The small icicles belonged to my Father when he was a little boy. They are probably even older than that. Another of the treasures that I hold dear. These haven't been on our tree since J.J. was born. He had never seen them before. It's time to take them out and enjoy them again.

As I create this blog post I am listening to the Bing Crosby Christmas Record with the Andrews Sisters. Another great memory of Christmas times gone by and loved ones who I miss tremendously.

Hope your halls are decked and that you're enjoying the season with those you hold dear.

New Orleans - Part 1

2011-09-06T22:02:00.000-07:00

We celebrated Cindy's birthday in her favorite city, New Orleans. Our trip began August 26th and returned home on September 4th. It included lots of fun excursions - tons of good food and drink - familiar heartwarming locations - an emotional trip to the Lower Ninth Ward - and Tropical Storm Lee. We can truly say we have fully experienced New Orleans now that I went through a Tropical Storm. I think we can live without experiencing a hurricane there!

When we flew in, we immediately visited with our friend Christine. She took us to a wonderful restaurant, Gott Gourmet, where John at a 1 pound hamburger... and was still hungry! Growing boy? You be the judge. She also drove us around some neighborhoods that we hadn't been to before and we enjoyed our first beignets of the trip. (Those are John's favorite) Can't believe we forgot to take photos together - AGAIN! We forgot the last time we visited with she and Michael. Next time, for sure!

Our first day we ate brunch at one of our favorite restaurants - Court of Two Sisters!

The food goes on.... and on.... and on....

That night we enjoyed a trip to Cafe Du Monde for beignets, and a stroll around St. Louis Cathedral. It's gorgeous during the day and almost more beautiful at night.

The next day Richard and I walked around the French Quarter and ended up people watching at the French Market. We enjoyed some Cajun Ice Tea's that were quite tasty and shared an Alligator Sausage Po'Boy.

Later that day John wanted to walk around and find someplace to eat. We ate at another one of our favorites, The Crescent City Brewhouse. They are celebrating their 20th Anniversary. We realized we have been going there practically since they opened.

And after dinner we strolled along the Moonwalk to enjoy the beautiful Mississippi River.

Bill & Cathie

2011-08-20T17:22:00.000-07:00

We had a great time visiting with our friends from Colorado yesterday. Bill is one of Richards' Fraternity Brothers. They reconnected through Facebook and LinkedIn, after MANY (many...many...) years.

Bill and Cathie live in Golden Colorado, which is home to Colorado School of Mines - Bill & Richards' Alma Mater. They enjoyed visiting Oregon and are headed a bit further north to the Orcas Islands. They love Indian food - so I made a feast for their enjoyment.

One of our local sites that they enjoyed was Silver Falls State Park. Unfortunately I was still at work when Richard drove them up there. The three of them had a lovely afternoon, including a short hike around the falls.

We hope to visit them in Colorado sometime next year. It's always fun to visit with friends - and even more sweet when the years apart simply melt away - and it feels like yesterday when you visited last.

"Glamping"

2011-08-12T21:01:00.000-07:00

One of my blogging friends in cyber-space, Jason, just posted a great story about his recent "glamping" trip. Those of you that really know me, know that I have NO desire to EVER go camping. The words camping, and roughing it, just aren't this Princess' vocabulary. But after reading about Jason's adventure - I just might be considering this new alternative.... "Glamping".

Read his adventure HERE. He had me at electricity, wood floor, beds and fine wine!

Happy Birthday Garden Party

2011-08-07T12:52:00.000-07:00

Our good friend, Robin, turned the BIG FOUR-OH this year. We wanted to do something special for him, so a birthday party seemed like a GREAT idea.

It was a perfect day for a garden party! Absolutely gorgeous weather and our yard looked great with all the tables and chairs set up.

The birthday boy surrounded by some of his family members - Mom, Sister and Brother

Lots of yummy food and drink for everyone to enjoy!

Richard and Pat

Some of our friends, Nancy, Jean-Paul, Frankie and Neecie

No birthday party would be complete without delicious cake and singing off-key!

Blow out the candles and make a wish!

Three of Robin's four kids helped with the celebration!

It was really a perfect day - filled with love and celebration for a special friend. Happy Birthday, Robin! Hope this year is the best year yet!

Capitol City Theater

2011-07-10T09:32:00.000-07:00

On Friday night we went to the Capitol City Theater located in the Reed Opera House. What a FUN evening! Great Improv Comedy - right here in little ol' Salem. And, they keep it clean - which is nice because you can take your kids, or your Mom and not be worried about the language or topics.

These are the performers. They were GREAT!

Go out and enjoy a really fun evening next Friday or Saturday night. They have two shows each night, 7:30pm and 9pm. And, if you're in the mood to learn Improv - they have classes every Wednesday evening! Sounds like the Ya Ya's and I should plan on attending one of those! Could be fun... but might be scary... You never know when the Ya Ya's get together!

Our 11th Anniversary

2011-07-07T10:01:00.000-07:00

Last night we celebrated our 11th Anniversary of love and laughter! The Ya Ya's were in rare form - although we were sad that Laura and Jamie couldn't join us.

For our Anniversary we decided it would be nice to plant a tree. Adrienne chose a Ponderosa Pine and we planted it on her property just off her patio.

Here are Kathy and Brenda giving the tree some "Ya Ya Love" before being planted.

Brenda and Adrienne doing the planting

All planted and quite happy with its home!

So Adrienne - it's all up to you now. The fate of the Ya Ya's is in your hands. I told her - "so, if the tree dies, I suppose that means the Ya Ya's need to break up." I doubt we could really follow through with that... tree or no tree.... we're the best of friends - ALWAYS!

Happy Father's Day

2011-06-19T09:37:00.000-07:00

Father's Day is a bittersweet day for me. Of course I want to celebrate my wonderful husband who is a fabulous father to our son John and to Kristi & Brian - but it's a difficult day for me because I miss my Dad so much.

John Porter was a pretty spectacular man. He left an impression on everyone who knew him. He left a legacy in his work at Disneyland - and he left a legacy of love in his family and friends.

My Dad was loving, talented, kind, honest, had an incredible work ethic with tons of integrity, was funny, smart, brave, an honest and loving husband, the best Daddy, and an all around "mans man".

I love you so much Dad - and I miss you EVERYDAY!

Craft Cabinets

2011-06-05T12:23:00.000-07:00

I love working on crafts. I stamp cards, make scrapbooks and quilt... and with those hobbies come a lot of supplies. To this point, one half of my family room has always been piled high with craft supplies. Tables and shelves were full of the "tools of trade"... and not in any particular or neat order. So, my dream has always been to have a craft area, complete with counters and cabinets, in which I could "hide" my supplies when not in use - and have plenty of space to spread out when working on a project.

Robin Wengert, owner of Green Rising Construction LLC (click here to view their website) made my dreams come true when he designed and created a fabulous space for me. (Robin also created my beautiful front door entry-way. Click here to read my blog post and see photos.)

We purchased the cabinets and counter tops from Home Depot, and Robin worked his magic to make this an inviting and functional space.

I love spending time in my family room now... a place for everything - and everything in it's place!

Travis' Birthday

2011-05-08T09:30:00.000-07:00

Travis is one of my most favorite teenagers... next to my son - of course. We celebrated his birthday last night.

Here he is with his sisters, Callie & Kaelie... "Speak No Evil" - "Here No Evil" - and "See No Evil". Well, Travis actually looks like he was sleeping... but he's not peeking... so he has the right idea.

And what brother and sister photo would be complete without one of these shots??

Travis' Grandma - Mira

Callie and Kaelie looking VERY innocent.... Hmmm.....

And we celebrate Travis by singing to him... loudly and intentionally off key.

Yup.. he had a pretty good time, and got lots of fun presents.

Love you Travis! Happy Birthday!

Celebrate Richard

2011-05-03T21:22:00.000-07:00

Richard didn't want a big "to do" for his birthday this year. He opted for a quiet dinner at our favorite restaurant, Rudy's.

Our friends Robin & Travis joined us for a fun evening - filled with really yummy food - a lots of laughs.

Richard is a loving husband and father. He's a fabulous brother and uncle and a really good friend. He's funny, smart and generous... and everyone that knows him, loves him.

Happy Birthday Richard. Love you always, honey!

Angie Comes to Visit

2011-04-08T09:04:00.000-07:00

How much fun was our visit with our most favorite two year old!??

A LOT of fun!

Our beautiful granddaughters, Megan and Darby came for a visit. And Little Miss Angela, Megan's daughter, came too!

Miss Angie was "very busy" in our yard before dinner. We were actually experiencing a mild evening with some sunshine, for a change. So, she had lots of fun moving things around and watching Darby's baby "Tristan" run around the yard.

Darby loved showing us all all the fun tricks that Tristan knew how to do. We love our furry four legged Great Grandpuppy very much!

Angie LOVES her Aunt Darby VERY much!

It was so fun having them come to visit! We love our girls... Oh yes... and boy Great Grandpuppy too!

Happy St. Patrick's Day

2011-03-17T00:11:00.000-07:00

May the Irish hills caress you.
May her lakes and rivers bless you.
May the luck of the Irish enfold you.
May the blessings of Saint Patrick behold you.

From our home to yours -

Happy St. Patrick's Day.

Mardi Gras Celebration

2011-03-07T21:46:00.000-08:00

Each year we celebrate Mardi Gras, usually the Saturday before "Fat Tuesday". This year was no exception. We celebrated last Saturday.

We love to be surrounded by those that we love to enjoy good food, wonderful drink, and music from our beloved New Orleans.

Our friend, Robin, contributed a delicious bouillabaisse to the meal. Here "Chef Robin" is being silly and giving his fabulous creation a little taste.

Dodi and Kerry enjoying the festivities.

Rob and Richard

Scott and Dodi

Robin with his beautiful daughters. They helped prepare the bouillabaisse.

Travis and his Dad being "Rock Stars" on Guitar Hero

The evening was wonderful. We really enjoyed the fun times with our wonderful friends.

Happy Mardi Gras everyone!

Laissez les bon temps rouler... That means - Let the Good Times Roll!

Adoption Day - 2011

2011-03-02T22:18:00.000-08:00

16 years ago today the heavens aligned and this beautiful boy joined our family.

Each year we celebrate this special occasion at a restaurant of John's choice. He usually chooses Rudy's - Home of the delicious "baseball cut" sirloin steak!

Hmmm.. when did the son get as tall as the father???

Nah - not taller than Mom. I was just too lazy to stand up from the dinner table. Ha ha!

Richard makes a toast to our beautiful boy and that special Adoption Day in 1995.

And I'm just a very happy Mommy.

The day this child came into my life was one of the best days of my life. I don't know how I ever survived without him. He has always been - and will always be - the light of my life. I love you John - Together forever - a family we will always be!

California Trip

2011-02-26T16:49:00.000-08:00

I took a quick trip to So. Cal to visit with friends that I hadn't seen in years. The reason for my trip was a class reunion, which you can read about HERE. But I wanted to make the most of my stay, so I planned a whirlwind few days to enjoy the company of some long lost friends.

My first evening was spent with my high school friend, David. We reconnected over Facebook, and I'm so happy that we did. He planned a fun-filled Culver City evening. We started at our old high school Culver City High.

Appetizers and Cocktails were next on the evenings agenda, at the old Culver Hotel. It is the hotel that housed the "Munchkins" while filming "The Wizard of Oz" at MGM in the late 1930's. The hotel had fallen into disrepair YEARS ago. In all the years I lived in Culver City, I had never stepped foot it. But they've completely refurbished it and it looks amazing.

Next we had dinner at "Ford's Filling Station", across the street from the hotel. It is owned and operated by Harrison Ford's son. Really yummy meal. I loved it.

I had so much fun with David. He planned a great evening for us and we laughed the night away. I look forward to the next time we can get together. Hopefully he will come to visit me the next time!

The next day I got together with some great friends - Colleen, Lamarr and Vartouhy - we used to work together in the 80's.

I haven't seen Colleen since her wedding day 12 years ago. And Vartouhy and I haven't seen each other in probably 20 years. What a fun time the four of us had together. And, it was a really great meal too!

Lamarr and I were fortunate to have seen each other last October - but it's always a giggle fest when the two of us get together. We all kept the family at the next table quite entertained. What a great few hours we had and so wonderful catching up with everyone.

That evening I drove to Orange County - THE O.C. - to see my "cousin" Steve. (Steve was my Godfather's Grandson... so we've always referred to each other as cousins.) I haven't seen him since I moved to Oregon 15 years ago.

He and his wife Kerri took me to a delicious dinner at a wonderful Italian Restaurant - Capone's. His son Tom was able to join us. I really enjoyed getting to know Kerri and spending time with Tom. The last time I saw him, he was just a baby.

Kerri is really sweet and funny, and a beautiful pianist. I am happy that she and Steve found each other and have begun a new life together. I truly enjoyed my evening with them and hope it will not be so long before we see each other again.

The next morning I was able to have a fun and laugh filled brunch, at the Cheesecake Factory in Marina Del Rey, with my high school friend Hope. As with David, we reconnected on Facebook and it's been years since we saw each other. I hope she will come visit me in Oregon this summer.

Because it had rained the two previous days, this was a truly spectacularly gorgeous day. The sun was so bright, sky so blue, and the air so clean and clear. That is Catalina Island that you can see in the distance. Having it be so clear and visible is a somewhat unusual occurrence.

My friend Carol and I had a lovely lunch with her son Jack the day after the reunion.

My last evening was spent with another long lost friend that was found on Facebook. Conor and I met for a nice dinner filled with lots of reminiscing and good times. I had such a good time that I totally forgot to ask the waiter to take a picture of us. Oy!

So, this entire weekend was pretty much brought to me by Facebook! I think it is a wonderful phenomenon that so many friends have been able to reconnect because of it. My weekend was perfect - I just wish it wasn't over. It was pretty special to see so many special friends that I share such fantastic memories with.

Notre Dame Reunion

2011-02-21T17:26:00.000-08:00

Ever heard of an Eighth Grade Reunion??? Yeah, I thought not! We're a unique group. Having gone to a small Catholic school, we were the same group of kids going from class to class each year - from first through eighth grade. Some of us have stayed in touch - and in recent years our friend Keith has made it his mission to find as many of us as possible - and get us together for a couple of reunions.

On February 20th, fifteen of us met at Heidi's house for an evening full of great food, lots of memories, and just an overwhelming feeling of love and friendship.

Here's our group! Hey - we don't look half bad all these many years later!

Our delicious chocolate cake with chocolate mousse filling... Thanks Costco!

Carol and Me - BFF's for YEARS!

Ron, Keith in the background, Tom and Harry

The hostess with the mostest - Heidi. She and her family were so welcoming and made the evening so special.

Lauren, Maria and Gigi

Tom & Me - what a fun guy he is. Always was one of the class clowns... he hasn't changed a bit!

Carol and Keith. We kept referring to this as their "Prom Photo"!

Gigi, Tom and I having a laugh

Ron and Me

Erin lives on a ranch in Nashville. I sure hope I can find some time in the near future to visit her. We really enjoyed the time we spent visiting - and I've never been to Nashville before!

Keith surrounded by all the girls.... some things never change!

The carpool buddies - Sheila, Tom and Gigi

Having not seen most of these people for almost 20 years (at our last reunion) it was really fun to catch up and share a great evening with them. We all stay in contact thanks to Facebook, which is really special. Some of our friends were unable to make it this time - so we'll just have to plan another wonderful evening in the not too distant future, hopefully.

Look Who's 16 !!!

2011-02-01T09:27:00.000-08:00

John's 16th birthday was January 31st. How did this happen? Where do the years go? Seems like yesterday that we brought him home!

We started with a "friends party". Justin & Mason came for a night of fun, video games, and a sleep over.

The next night we celebrated with the family party.

Cake Time! Yum!

And on his actual birthday we went to dinner at his favorite restaurant, Rudy's. Home of the baseball cut steak. His FAVORITE!

John is a handsome, intelligent, loving, funny and wonderful son. He was the light of our life when he became a part of our family - and he still is. We love you John... Happy Birthday!

Happy New Year 2011

2011-01-01T17:52:00.000-08:00

Another year has come and gone. I can't hardly believe it! The days, weeks and months seem to fly by faster and faster.

2010 was a year full of ups and downs. We said final goodbyes to some friends, which was terribly sad. But I reconnected with my Uncle, from whom I had been estranged for many years. We made new friends in the last part of the year, and relationships with existing friends and family were strengthened. There were some health scares for some family members, but thankfully - and with God's good grace - everything turned out well.

As the year came to a close, we celebrated with a small group of friends - and we had an amazing time. I don't think I've laughed that hard in a very long time... and the laughter and love was quite welcome. Here are few photos from a very fun evening. Happy New Year everyone. May 2011 bring love, happiness, health, joy and prosperity to us all.

My tablescape to bring in the New Year

Alyssa & Dodi

Scott, Alyssa & Dodi

Rob - who kept us in stitches most of the night

Richard and Me

Rob and Me

Scott and Me

Dodi, Kerry & Alyssa

Robin & Me

Christmas 2010

2010-12-26T18:32:00.000-08:00

Christmas was a bit low-key this year. We didn't even really take many photos. It was a quiet day - filled with love and family... but the camera didn't make much of an appearance this year. Here are a couple of photos... just to prove we actually did celebrate... especially "Skittles" as you can see by the photo below!

John in his new robe and jammies... with Miss Coco

Went with colored lights on the tree this year. It was nice for a change.

We hope your Christmas was Merry & Bright!

A Very Ya Ya Christmas

2010-12-15T18:08:00.000-08:00

This year it was my turn to host the Ya Ya Christmas Party. I had a great time planning the evening, decorating the table, and preparing for Miss Brenda's birthday! There is never a dull moment when my girls and I get together - and there is always a ton of laughter and fun too. This evening was NO exception!

Happy Holiday's to Everyone!

My tablescape for the evening

A little mood lighting

My girl Adrienne & Me

Adrienne, Laura & Kathy

Jamie & Adrienne

Miss Brenda preparing the soup

Adrienne, Jamie & Laura during present opening

Miss Brenda with the birthday present I gave her

Laura made the cake and INSISTED on putting ALL the candles on to account for Brenda's years. It was hilarious!

A little photo editing fun with Piknik in Picasa

And The Winner Is...

2010-12-06T17:56:00.000-08:00

This is the photo we chose for our 2010 Christmas Card. I love it when Laura takes our photographs. She ALWAYS makes us look GREAT! Thanks my friend... you're the best - and I love you!

Family Photo Shoot

2010-12-04T22:38:00.000-08:00

Last weekend we took family photo's for our Christmas Card this year. Our friend, Laura Peterson, is an amazing photographer. She always makes us look SO GOOD!

Here is a "sneak peek" of some of our favorites - but none of these "made the cut" for the actual card.

Happy Thanksgiving

2010-11-27T17:45:00.000-08:00

We had a lovely Thanksgiving and hope you did too! Here are a couple of photos from our day with family. It was a small gathering this year, and fairly quiet... but that was nice for a change. Just relaxing, and eating and visiting and eating...

Our niece and nephew - Erin and Joe

Richard's sister Kelly - her husband Jay - and Richard

The men standing guard by the turkey!

My New Front Door

2010-11-25T11:59:00.000-08:00

Our home was built in 1946. It was the first home in the neighborhood. We replaced our front door when we first moved it. To that point it was a double door. Cute - but not my style. We replaced it with a mahogany door with fan light on the top... but that didn't help the glass block that were in the wall on either side of the door. I've never liked the glass blocks installed in this way, as they looked "just stuck" there.

So, I asked our friend Robin Wengert - owner of Green Rising Construction - to take a look and see if he could come up with a design that would transform my entry hall. We discussed framing the glass blocks, but then Robin came up with an idea... here he used painters tape to show me what he had in mind. I was sold!

Green Rising Construction believes in recycling, re-use, and sustainable building. Robin carefully removed the trim from around my front door so that we could re-use it in the house if ever needed.

I could have never imagined the amazing transformation awaiting my return home from work one evening! Using mahogany trim he created a frame for the door and glass blocks.

It's like a completely different door... and definitely a spectacular entry way!

In the space above and below the glass blocks, a blank space was created. We discussed different options for the space. Together we decided that glass tile would complete the look - and he helped me choose a color combination that would compliment the color of my door, and the entry hall.

The glass tile is partially made from recycled glass - which I thought fit in perfectly with Green Rising Constructions belief in sustainability.

I couldn't be more thrilled. I keep walking into my entry hall and staring at my gorgeous front door. What a work of art! Thank you Robin for adding beauty to my home! (Check out Green Rising Construction on the web - www.greenrisingconstruction.com)

Genealogy - Sentimental Sunday - No. 59

2010-11-14T13:20:00.000-08:00

This is my Dad and his Mom, my Grandma Julia. Based on when my Dad was born, I would say this photo was taken in late 1920 or early 1921.

Been thinking about both of them a lot lately. My Grandma Julia's birthday would have been last Friday - so she's been on my mind. It would have been her 108th birthday.

So, Happy Birthday Grandma... and I love and miss you Dad!

2010-11-12T21:01:00.000-08:00

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I'm not quite sure where the last two weeks have gone. We've been crazy busy - and I feel a little like the Tasmanian Devil above. Life is good - we're still alive - but all of sudden we're almost halfway through November and I haven't updated the blog since Halloween.

Can't believe that Thanksgiving is less than two weeks away - and Christmas will be fast on her heels. I am so NOT ready for the holidays this year. Haven't even started to think about our Christmas cards, and by now I usually have about half of our Christmas presents purchased. Oh My!

Well, I best get off the computer and get my rear-end in gear. Happy weekend everyone!

Happy Halloween - Sentimental Sunday No. 58

2010-10-31T08:52:00.000-07:00

Halloween 2007

We've always enjoyed Halloween. John really loved it, and enjoyed going trick or treating when he was younger. Now, he still likes to decorate for the holiday - and we usually make a pretty cool display in our front yard. But, this year we're not quite sure where October went... so there's not much going on out there.

Anyway, here are some photo's from Halloween's past. Wishing everyone a Happy and Safe Halloween!

Happy Anniversary

2010-10-25T20:47:00.000-07:00

Twenty-six years ago today - we met.

Exactly three years later we were married in front of our family and friends on the Queen Mary in Long Beach, California.

Each year we celebrate our love.

Each year we celebrate our joy and happiness.

Happy Anniversary to us.

... And they lived happily ever after.

Davis Washington Austin - Sentimental Sunday No. 57

2010-10-24T10:04:00.000-07:00

Davis Washington Austin ~ 1827 - 1903

Davis Washington Austin was my 2nd Great Grandfather. He was the father of my Great Grandmother, Anna Elberta Austin - who I wrote about last week.

Original Certificate of Marriage

D.W. Austin married Amanda Seals in 1847. They lived in Butler Alabama until they moved to Pensacola, Florida - where he worked at the Naval Yard. At the outbreak of the Civil War he worked there building ships.

When the war began he organized a company of soldiers to join the fight, with himself as captain. Unfortunately for him (or perhaps very fortunately), the people making the decisions decided he was too valuable to the Southern cause as a ship builder and he was detailed to the Naval Yard building ships for the South. After the war he returned to Butler County.

Reverse side of Marriage Certificate - listing family births

Davis moved to Birmingham in 1871 and remained there until his death in 1903, at the age of 76. He was a contractor and builder, the Jefferson County Corner, a deputy sheriff, the jailer and in his later years engaged in real estate.

Anna Elberta Austin - Sentimental Sunday No. 56

2010-10-17T11:21:00.000-07:00

Anna Elberta Austin was my Mom's maternal grandmother; my great grandmother. She died when I was almost four, on August 12th, 1963. She was born on October 30th sometime between 1868 and 1871. She lied about her age her entire life, and even erased her year of birth, and those of the two children before her, in her parents records.

Graduation Photo, circa 1888

Anna Elberta Austin, seated first on left.

I don't personally have a lot of memories of her, because I was so young when she died. But, I do have little glimmers here and there. I do remember she was always very nice to me. And I remember her little black coin purse that she would take out and open up to give me a quarter when she saw me, always saying "Let's see what Danny Bert has in her purse for little Cindy". (We all called her "Danny Bert". My Mom was the first grandchild and she couldn't say Grandma Elberta; it came out "Danny Bert" and that's what she was called from then on.)

I can tell you is that she was a formidable woman.

** She worked in Washington D.C. for General Pershing.

** She marched with Susan B Anthony for the right to vote.

** She was with the Woman's Temperance League to bring about Prohibition. Although I was recently told by my cousin Nona that she had an ulterior motive for doing so. Her husband was notorious for going on "benders" and leaving her and the kids alone. So, she wanted to bring about a stop to those escapades - and wanted a chance to go around to the bars to try and find him.

I recently visited her grave in Santa Monica, CA. I wanted to pay my respects to her, and document where she is buried.

She was a strong woman, perhaps a little crazy - based on some of the stories I've heard, and a woman that wasn't afraid to speak her mind. I admire her fortitude of spirit and her willingness to speak up for what she thought was right. And, as a woman who has the right to vote - I'm thankful for the work that she and so many others did in those days.

Fun Trip To So Cal

2010-10-16T11:33:00.000-07:00

Last weekend I went to Southern California to visit family and friends. It was a quick trip that was filled to the brim with love laughter and happiness.

My specific reason for going was to spend time with my cousins and to interview my cousin Nona. She is the matriarch of our family and I wanted to interview her on camera about our family history and her recollections of the Depression and World War II. It was amazing; she was amazing. I'm working on putting the movie together. Should be about 30 minutes long. She was fantastic.

Here are some photos of my adventure -

My good friend, Lamarr and me. We've been friends for 28 years. Obviously we met while still in diapers!

Had an opportunity to have dinner with my friend Mario and his girlfriend Becky. Mario and I went to grade school together. Haven't seen each other in 17 years. It was a blast!

Here are some of my cousins - Left to Right -

Jasmine, Blakely, Nona, Kim, Mikki, Molly and Me

My cousins Ron, Mikki and Kim

Mikki is holding one of two of her new granddaughters - Pandora

Four Generations Photo -

On the right are Molly and Dicky - They are Mikki's kids They both made her "Grandma" this summer. On the left is Ali - she is Dicky's wife. She's holding their baby Pandora.

Mikki is holding Molly's baby, Lila. And Nona is in the middle.

Baby cousins meeting each other and saying HI !

Mikki, holding Lila, Nona and Molly.

My good friend Carol and me. Carol and I have known each other since second grade... you know... just a couple of years ago!

I couldn't have asked for a more perfect trip. Everything went so smoothly. It was so fun to see Lamarr and Carol - it's been too long. And my day with my cousins - well I couldn't have imagined that day to be MORE perfect.

Thanks for memories everyone! Love you all!

Kathy Griffin

2010-10-16T10:57:00.000-07:00

Had a total blast night at the Arlene Schnitzer Auditorium. We had tickets to see Kathy Griffin. She was fantastic. So hysterically funny - and sometimes just "wrong" - but we loved her. Would definitely buy tickets to go see her again!

Escalators - Sentimental Sunday No. 55

2010-09-26T08:35:00.000-07:00

Cindy & Dad - early 1961

It’s such a simple thing – really! You walk over to it, place your foot upon it, and down you go. Escalators are commonly used and found in most malls, airports, office buildings. I’ve been using them all my life. Why then do I always have such a difficult time getting on one?

Jesse Wilford Reno produced the first working escalator (he actually called it the "inclined elevator") and installed it alongside the Old Iron Pier at Coney Island, New York in 1896. I used my first escalator about 1961. I’ve never had a problem “going up”. But, “coming down” is a completely different story!

My Dad told me that when I was little I would stand at the top of the escalator and cry and scream, because I was afraid to get on it. I don’t know what it is about stepping on that first step to ride down – but it frightens me. And to this day, I still hesitate before I get on one to ride down. I’m fine once I’m on it – but that initial step creates just a little bit of panic inside.

I was reminded about this fear the other day when a friend and I were at the mall. We walked over to the escalator to ride down, but the escalator wasn’t working. Lord Help Me! Walking down a non-working escalator is even MORE difficult for me. Must be a depth perception thing – who knows, but my friend was laughing hysterically at me. He thought it was hilarious that I had to walk down so slowly – panicking all the while.

I wish I remembered the days of me crying at the top of the escalator – I’m sure my Dad couldn’t understand what my problem was, and it probably frustrated him. Today I don’t cry before I place my foot on that first step, but inside I’m still that same little girl not wanting to step foot on the moving metal giant. Yup – I’m a dork!

I Love Lucy - Sentimental Sunday No. 55

2010-09-19T08:49:00.000-07:00

“I Love Lucy” was one of my favorite shows growing up. During the summer months it was on television every weekday morning at 9am. I watched all the episodes with my Mom. Those are happy memories.

The show never fails to make me laugh, no matter how many times I’ve seen the episode.; and I’ve seen ALL the episodes at least five or six times. (All 194 of them)

It is difficult to choose my favorite episodes, but some are “Vitameatavegemin”, “The Chocolate Factory” and of course “The Grape Stomping” episode. But there are many that are less well known that tickle my funny bone. For example, the one when Lucy and Ethel buy a walk in freezer and a side of beef – without Ricky and Fred knowing about it – and Lucy gets locked in the freezer and nearly freezes to death. Or the time they decide to live in “pioneer days” and Lucy bakes the loaf of bread that is huge and comes out of the oven and pins her against the cabinets – because she thought the recipe said 13 cakes of yeast, rather than three.

Especially dear to my heart are all of the episodes when they are travelling to California, and then when they are in Hollywood. Who could ever forget the girls stealing John Wayne’s footprints from in front of Grauman’s Chinese Theater? Or, when Lucy is asked to be in a fashion show, but she gets so sunburned… and then has to wear a 100% wool suit on the runway. Her agony was palpable.

I am always instantly happy whenever I watch an “I Love Lucy” episode. She was a genius - and so was Desi Arnaz. He invented the 3-camera sitcom and was an incredible visionary when he had the show filmed, rather than recorded on kinescope. I Love Lucy was the first television show to be shot in front of an audience on 35mm film. It is because of his vision that we have all of these treasures more than 50 years later. What a gift they left us all.

I loved Lucy when I was young – and to this day I still do. I own the entire collection on DVD and watch them while walking on the treadmill. And, as I’m watching episodes I can almost hear my Mom’s laughter – because she loved Lucy too.

Lucille Ball was credited with many clever quotes – but I’ll leave you with my favorite, “The secret of staying young is to live honestly, eat slowly, and lie about your age.”

Who doesn’t "love Lucy" - she was FABULOUS!

Love Letters From Sea - Sentimental Sunday No. 54

2010-09-12T09:07:00.000-07:00

Here is another letter written by my Father to my Mom. Their anniversary would be tomorrow; 69 years. This letter was written two days before their first anniversary. It was my Dad’s “anniversary card” to her. If I EVER doubted, which I haven’t, their love for each other – this letter would put those doubts to rest.

September 11, 1942

My Darling Wife:

I have been sitting here reading a book for the past hour and it reminded me of our lives and problems and I just couldn’t read any longer without writing and telling you that I love you from the very bottom of my heart, darling. I don’t know whether I shall be able to mail this letter or not, but I must write it to ease the pent up feeling I have inside me. I know that if I could just hear your voice, I know it would disappear.

My love for you is so very great, that when I’m away from you I feel like I shall explode. I miss you so terribly much sweetheart; and just knowing that you love me and are waiting for me to come home is the only thing that keeps me sane.

In two more days we’ll have been married a year and darling I want you to know that it has been the most heavenly year I’ve ever known. Just being your husband and knowing your love is all I want from heaven and earth. I do know that the love I have for you is real and true and that there never will be or could be anyone for me but you. You captured my heart from the very day I met you. I realize that you mean everything in the world to me and without you my life would be a blank. I truly know that I could never live without you and that as long as I have you, which I pray is forever, I shall one day be something. You’re my only happiness.

Although we are apart I know that our love for each other is just as strong as when together, and I’m sure that if every other married couple were as much in love and as true to each other, there would never be any need for divorce. I know that if there were no war that we would both be more contented with the fact that we could be together, but if every man loved his wife and longed for her as I do for you, their marriage could be nothing but a true honest and successful one.

I am looking forward to the day when we can be together always and build our home and live like we were intended to. But to put all this together and boil it down it simply means that I love you with all my heart and soul. Sweetheart, you’re my past, present and future and I shall be yours alone until the end of time.

I love you and miss you so terribly much darling. And I’m so hopefully praying that I shall be able to see you again; soon. Bye now sweetheart, and even though we can’t be together on our anniversary I’m wishing you a very very happy one.

Yours forever,

Your loving husband,

Johnny

House History - Sentimental Sunday No. 53

2010-09-05T09:40:00.000-07:00

Our home was built in 1946. It was the first home in this area. The man that owned and built the home was Mr. Colgan. He owned all the property around his home. We are only the fourth owners of the house - and we've been fortunate to meet someone from each of the families that lived here previously.

We both fell in love with this house when we walked through it the first time. I love that I've met the people that lived here before. It feels "full circle" to me - and I respect the history of our home. The families that came before us laughed and loved here - and it makes me happy to continue that celebration in this house we call home.

When we remodeled our bathroom last year, we replaced the original tub. After it was removed we discovered the bottle above with the note wrapped around it. It had been placed under the tub as a 'time capsule', if you will. F.P. Colgan owned and built the house in 1946. "Porter Plasterer" is significant because Porter is my maiden name. So, it was kismet - destiny - meant to be - that we should own this home and continue the tradition of love and laughter and happiness under this roof.

The Celebration Continues

2010-09-04T12:35:00.000-07:00

One of my favorite things about my birthday is getting to share it with one of my BFF's, Adrienne!

We love celebrating together - especially with our Ya Ya Sisters! A YaYa Birthday is the BEST! This one was no exception!

~ Adrienne & Brenda ~

~ Brenda & Me ~

~ Kathy, Me & Jamie ~

~ Me with Laura ~

~ Kathy, Jamie & Laura ~

~ Make a Wish ~

Kathy made us a "Super Cake". It was really good. She put a lot of love and time into it. And we had Mint Chocolate Chip Ice Cream too!

As usual, our Ya Ya Sisters spoiled up immensely. It was a great evening, full of fun and laughter, fabulous food - and love and friendship. We're so blessed to have each other. I am thankful for these beautiful women who love me - and I love them right back!

It's a Day to Celebrate...

2010-08-31T17:10:00.000-07:00

...ME !!

And what a fun day, actually several days, I've had. So many friends with so many sweet things to say - and kind birthday wishes. Truthfully, I am a bit overwhelmed. And, I would say "speechless", but anyone that truly knows me - would know that's not really possible! ;-)

We had a lovely lunch at PF Changs. My men sure do know how to spoil me!

Richard and I enjoyed some adult beverages - Asian Pear Mojito's. They are always so refreshingly delicious. We also had some very tasty appetizers - along with our usual Kung Pao Shrimp & Mongolian Beef.

PF Chang's is one of my FAVORITE places to eat. It's probably a good thing that we don't have one super close to us. That would be bad for my pocketbook - as well as my waistline!

Back at home we are continuing with a quiet celebration. To be honest, I could really use a nap. I'm really full! I don't think we'll be needing dinner tonight!

John got me the kittens for my birthday present. Espresso is on the left - and on the right is her sister Cappuccino. They are so sweet. Both extremely loving - and come complete with motorboat sound effects. (i.e., non stop purring)

John would rather that I don't take photo's of him - but he agreed to a few today... just because it's my birthday. Glad he would allow me to take this photo of him with his presents to me. They are such cute kitties! Who could resist holding them for a photo op??

My Birthday - Sentimental Sunday No. 52

2010-08-29T15:02:00.000-07:00

Cindy, Dad & Mom - Father's Day 1983

Tuesday will be my birthday. I've stopped counting now. I was 50 last year. Now I'm going with "50'ish".

If you've read my Sentimental Sunday's in the past - you know that I miss my parents tremendously. But, on holidays - and especially on my birthday - the emptiness of where they once were is even more present. They were amazing parents who loved me, cherished me, and made me always feel so special and important. And birthday's were especially important.

Miss you Mom and Dad - today and everyday. I'll have an extra piece of birthday cake for each of you. (Like I really need it!?)

Newest Family Members

2010-08-28T12:45:00.000-07:00

We have added two new family members to our menagerie.

~ Meet "Cappuccino" ~

~ and her sister "Espresso" ~

~Espresso is a "polydactl" cat. She has an extra toe on each of her front paws ~

My birthday is coming up, and J.J. wanted to get me a kitten for my present. We went to the Humane Society and found these adorable sisters. We were only going to get one kitten, but how can you break up a sister act?

They are both so sweet and loving and really happy to be "home". We're all really happy too!

Darby's Visit

2010-08-24T21:37:00.000-07:00

Our granddaughter, Darby, came to visit tonight from San Diego. We finally got to meet her boyfriend, Stephen. Up until now we have joked that we didn't think Stephen was real; a figment of her imagination. This was because we have been set to meet him on three different occasions and something always comes up to change our plans. So, finally meeting him - confirming that Darby has NOT imagined him - was a real treat.

For those who are a little confused about the "family connection", Darby is Kristi's (Richard's daughter) stepdaughter - which makes her one of our Granddaughters. (There is also her older sister Megan and our Grandson Cameron, her younger brother.)

We had a wonderful visit and hope that we will be seeing more of them. Lots of fun - Lots of laughs - and a yummy dinner rounded out a perfect evening!

Wedding Day

2010-08-22T09:00:00.000-07:00

Our niece, Holly, got married yesterday in a beautiful wedding. It was a celebratory day, as weddings are. Beautiful ceremony, fun reception, and great day visiting with family and friends.

They say pictures speak a thousand words - so I'll let my candid photos do the talking.

~ It was a gorgeous day on the Oregon Coast for Holly and D.J.'s wedding ~

~ Jay walking his beautiful daughter down the aisle ~

~ The Maid of Honor on the right - our niece Erin ~

~ The happy couple during the ceremony ~

~The giving and receiving of rings ~

~ Sealed with a Kiss ~

~ Mr. and Mrs. Daniel Correa ~

~ Their first dance ~

~ It's always a battle trying to get a teenage boy to smile for photos ~

~ Kelly, Richard's sister, with Canon - Holly and D.J.'s son ~

Date Night

2010-08-18T21:49:00.000-07:00

We had a fun impromptu date night when Richard picked me up from work tonight. Started with a cocktail and some delicious Purple Peruvian Fries with Cumin Scented Ranch Dressing at Prudence Uncorked. Both the drink and the food were delicious!

After our brief trip to see Prudence, we went to Salem Cinema to see the Italian film, "Mid-August Lunch".

What a delightful film! We highly recommend it. The original release date in Italy was 2008. I believe it may be available on DVD. It's a short (75 minutes) sweet and precious story about a man who takes care of his Mother - along with the Mother's of some of his friends. Adorable!

Driving Miss Sylvia - Sentimental Sunday No. 51

2010-08-15T00:01:00.000-07:00

My Dad always said that someday he was going to write a book called “I Married a Nut”. My Mom was one of the funniest people I’ve ever known…. And my Dad was pretty funny in his own right.

Mom hadn’t learned to drive by the time she and my Dad got married. So after they were married he tried to teach her, his Dad tried to teach her, but things didn’t go very smoothly. She had a little fender bender early on, and she swore off driving. Many years later, probably about ten, my Dad said to her one night, “if you ever get your driver’s license – I’ll eat it!” Well, that challenge was just the little push that she needed. So, with her Mom’s financial help she took driving lessons. I don’t know how long the lessons lasted, but she was finally ready to go to the DMV for her driver’s test.

Mom passed both the driving and written test and finally got her license. That afternoon she made a really great dinner. When Dad came home from work he commented that dinner smelled delicious. She told him to go wash up and it would be on the table in just a few minutes. She served a plate for herself and her Mom, and when my Dad came to the table his plate was waiting with a silver "plate cover" over it. As he sat down Mom removed the cover and said, “There you go! Enjoy your dinner!” All that was sitting on my Dad’s plate was my Mom’s new California Driver’s License. They all had a good laugh, and she probably ended up letting Dad have a little of the dinner too!

More Canning Adventures

2010-08-14T14:45:00.000-07:00

I don't know what has gotten into me, but I've been canning just about every weekend. Last weekend I even got one of my "besties" and fellow YaYa Sister, Kathy involved. (Unfortunately we didn't think to take any pictures - so here is one of her from last Christmas!)

We canned Kathy's homemade salsa and we made pickled green beans together. I just have to say - 12 pounds of green beans is A LOT! We both couldn't believe how many there were. They made 19 jars!

In my recent adventures I've made jam, and pickles, and the aforementioned pickled green beans, and salsa. I guess I'm inspired because so far, everything that I've tried has turned out great! Well, not sure yet about the green beans because they have to sit for a month before I can try them. To quote Tom Petty and the Heartbreakers - The waiting... is the hardest part!

Afternoon at the Movies

2010-08-09T14:15:00.000-07:00

We saw the movie "Ondine" this weekend, starring Colin Farrell. It was quite good.

Neil Jordan wrote and directed this enchanting Irish film about a fisherman who makes a discovery that may or may not be magical. It was a sweet tale, and we really enjoyed Colin Farrell's quiet performance. A change of pace from other movies we've seen him in.

One Year Check-Up

2010-08-06T11:52:00.000-07:00

Up bright and early this morning to take Richard for his one year check-up, after his surgery last summer. Unfortunately, the one year check-up involved having another colonoscopy. Boo!

We're happy to report though, that all is well! The surgeon from last year did the procedure this morning. He was rather proud of his work - and gave us photo's to prove it. We didn't think you REALLY wanted to see pictures of the inside of Richard's colon... so we'll spare you.

Richard is a happy guy; he gets to wait 5 years before having to go through this all over again. Yay!

Genealogy - Sentimental Sunday No. 50

2010-08-01T09:22:00.000-07:00

My Mother's favorite Grandma was her paternal grandmother, Silvia Stone Heslet. I just discovered these wonderful photo's of "Grandma Stone" taken in 1922 at a California beach. The baby is my Mom.

I love how fully clothed the women were at the beach. Black clothing and hats. It had to be warm in the sunshine and on the sand.

This photo was taken in her later years. My Uncle just sent it to me. When I saw it I realized that I had a copy of this photo too. But, I didn't know who it was. I sure wish my Mom and Dad had been better about writing peoples names on the photo's.

Unfortunately I don't really know anything about Grandma Stone. Looking at the photo above - I think she has kind eyes. I know how much my Mom loved her. She had very happy memories of playing at her house. And, she treasured a china luncheon set that had belonged to her. The set belongs to me now, and I treasure it too.

"A Canning We Will Go"

2010-07-31T16:19:00.000-07:00

I have been having SO much fun canning pickles over the past couple of weekends. So far, I've made 2 dozen jars of Spicy Garlic Dill Pickles. I had never canned pickles before, so I scoured the Internet to find a recipe that sounded good - Oh, and EASY too! I think I found a great one. Those that have tasted the pickles have said they are really good - and they think I'm fibbing when I say this was my first time making pickles. It's been fun!

Because the pickle making has gone so well I decided to look at recipes for other things as well. I found a yummy sounding recipe for Peach Almond Jam. So, this morning I bought some peaches and made it. I can't even describe how delicious this jam is. Wonderfully sweet peaches combined with almond extract. Summer in a jar!

Next weekend my friend Kathy and I are going to try spicy pickled green beans! I'll let you know how they turn out!

Check out my GumboYaYa Blog for the recipes

Things That Make You Go Hmmm...

2010-07-30T17:56:00.000-07:00

You would think at this stage of my life I wouldn’t be surprised by the things that people do. Yet, I’m still amazed!

I wonder how so many people don’t think about how their words and actions will affect others. I try to make sure that I don’t intentionally hurt those around me. In fact, I often fret over whether or not something that I’ve said or done may have hurt or upset someone. That's right... I actually THINK about conversations that I’ve had and replay them to be sure I’ve not offended. Yet, I don’t seem to be afforded the same kindness.

I know that people don’t usually set out to hurt me… but the result is the same, nonetheless. Just needed to rant… Thanks for listening.

I Was So Happy

2010-07-27T21:35:00.000-07:00

on Sunday night. The series "Mad Men" returned for the fourth season.

image from allmoviephoto.com

We abolutely LOVE this show! Extremely well written and the actors do a fine job portraying their characters. We will be looking forward to Sunday nights on AMC at 10pm.

If you aren't already hooked on this show, put the first few seasons on your "Netflix" list! It's great!

My Godparents - Sentimental Sunday No. 49

2010-07-25T08:36:00.000-07:00

My Godparents, Orie & Ginger, were my parent’s very best friends. Today would have been Ginger’s birthday. I miss the fun times we had and all of the celebrations we enjoyed.

Dad and Orie worked together at MGM, and later at Walt Disney Studios. I’ve written about my Mom and Ginger in a previous Sentimental Sunday, as well as Orie. You can read those posts here, here and here. They were hilarious together. Not a day went by that they didn’t speak, even on vacation… because we went on vacation together. Usually we went to Las Vegas – but a couple of times we went to San Diego. It didn’t matter where we were – as long as we were all together.

Ginger spent hours with me telling me stories, watching old movies, and working with me on my ballet. Orie talked to me about gardening and taught me how to make fried green tomatoes and zucchini and pizzelles. He gave me an appreciation of the most excellent italian food and meats and cheeses, and his sister's taught me to make some of their family italian recipes. Those were fantastic times full of love and learning and the simple fact that they all spent that time with me made me know how much I was loved.

I was a lucky girl. I had the best parents ever – along with the best Godparents. I love all of them still – even though they’ve all gone on to that vacation in the sky without me. I know that when my time comes they will all be there waiting for me, and we will once again laugh and celebrate together.

Love Letters - Sentimental Sunday No. 48

2010-07-18T11:13:00.000-07:00

Another special gem that we found when cleaning out the garage was a love note that my Grandpa Porter wrote to my Grandma Julia about one month before they were married. At 26 years old, he was 10 years older than she when they married.

While not as full of heartfelt emotion as the letters my Dad wrote to my Mom, it is beautiful and simple in the sentiment of how much he loved her.

The photo above is obviously a few years later, after the arrival of their only child, my Dad.

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Pueblo

November 9, 1918

My Dearest Julia:

I received your always welcome letter. As for my love toward you, it is as strong as a heart could make it. It is all for you as there is no other who could fill your place. In my estimation it is a true love that never grows cold.

I remain yours until death parts.

With love and kisses,

J.E.P.

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Finding this letter was bittersweet, as they divorced in 1941. I always thought they didn’t like each other very much. But, the fact that my Grandmother saved this letter all those years probably indicates that she fondly remembered that time, early in their relationship, when they were very much in love.

Live Aid Anniversary

2010-07-17T21:21:00.000-07:00

image from www.apeculture.com

This week marked the 25th anniversary of Live Aid. What a spectacular world event it was all those twenty five years ago. It was a wonderful day of music and fellowship, but more importantly a day for the world to become more aware of the tragedy happening in Africa. Unfortunately, things are still not perfect on the beautiful continent.

image from www.bobgeldof.info

Sir Bob Geldof was the primary organizer for Live Aid. He continues to work for aid in Africa and stopping poverty around the world. I think he's a pretty incredible man, and I'm in awe of him and his humanitarian efforts.

Richard and I are remembering Live Aid by watching our DVD set of the day. So many fun performances and really great music. And, some of the things we laugh at because they are "just SO 80's"! All in all the day holds happy memories for us and we're enjoying reliving some of them this weekend.

Love Letters From Sea - Sentimental Sunday No. 47

2010-07-11T08:56:00.000-07:00

Here is another letter written to my Mom by my Dad while he was in the Navy. This letter was postmarked December 1, 1941. Just six days later Pearl Harbor will be bombed. The letters to this point look normal with normal postmarks. Letters after that date will bear the seal of the Navy Censors.

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Sunday

30 November 1941

Bremerton, Washington

My Darling Beloved Wife:

I wrote you a special delivery air mail letter yesterday so that you would know that I’m still alive. I sent it ashore with a guy that got paid off and I hope he mailed it before he gets back to Chicago. I went in to Bremerton last night and I bought you another Christmas present. It’s something you once told me you wanted, but I don’t think you’ll guess what it is. It’s large, but not heavy, and looks almost real but isn’t. I could tell you what it is, but won’t; not until Christmas. But what I will tell you is that I love you so very very much and would give anything to be able to hold you in my arms.

I went to a show and saw Honky Tonk and when she ran her fingers through Clark Gables hair and kissed him I got so homesick for you, I almost died. Then I had a hamburger and a cup of coffee and came back to the ship in time to hold 6pm sick call, some speed! I had to look in every store in Bremerton to get you that present and only one had it and I got their last one.

We’re going up North again and then come straight home, (I hope). Honey, I’m so sick of the Navy, and being away from you makes me feel like running away. If I weren’t a short timer, I would. I’m patriotic. I’ve fought for liberty for 3 years, in fact, and I even got leave a couple of times. (puny pun) There hasn’t been anything new going on and the ship is so dead it looks like a tomb. The Chief went over again last night and he hasn’t come back yet. Boy, he’s sure a two timing old turd. I hope he stays over.

What’s new at the rancho, Sweetheart, and how is my darling wife getting along? When you’re not busy tell her that her husband adores her and is terribly in love with her and is awfully anxious to be home with the little redheaded angel. I love you darling. Every time my heart beats it beats twice as hard because your heart is my heart so I have twice as much love for you. I feel like a shadow darling. I feel as if I left myself behind when I had to leave you. I’ve never felt like this before in my life, at least not until I met you. And, for myself I think love’s grand and being married to you is the most wonderful thing in the world. I love you darling, I love you, I love you, and if they don’t get me back to you by Christmas I’m going to want to punch somebody in the snot locker.

Well my darling, adorable, beloved, loving little angel, Mrs. John A Porter, I’ll have to close now. This will be the last letter I will be able to write before I see you (20th). Bye darling and please take care of yourself. I love you angel. I adore you.

Your loving and adoring husband,

Johnny

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He was able to see her at Christmas time, because there are letters dated in January indicating that they had spent time together.

Ya Ya 10th Anniversary

2010-07-10T12:49:00.000-07:00

July 2000 was the first meeting of the Ya Ya's. We've been going strong for 10 years now! On Wednesday night we celebrated our anniversary by "allowing" the "men folk" to join us for some Ya Ya fun.

We played The Newlywed Game and the guys had a little game of their own to play ~ Ya Ya Trivia. Brenda, our hostess, created that game to see how well the husbands listen to us when we come home after a Ya Ya night. Charles & Todd "cleaned up" on that one!

Our wonderful hostess & host ~ Brenda & Todd

Adrienne & Joe

Kathy & Charles

Larry & Laura

Richard & Me

Unfortunately, Jamie & Jake were not able to join us. (Sad face) Jamie had to work. We missed them both, tremendously.

Brenda's husband Todd commented that now he understood what she meant when she would come home and say "My cheeks and sides hurt from laughing so much!" We all had a super fun time. Thank you Todd for putting up with all of us "crazy ladies" in your home - and thank you to all of our husbands for being good sports about the evening and playing along with the games.

Independence Day

2010-07-07T12:07:00.000-07:00

We had a super fun 4th of July, filled with good friends, tasty food and fun fireworks. It was a great day!

Rob, Dodi & Scott

Alyssa

John & Alyssa ~ Hey! He is taller than she is now!

Richard bringing over some chairs for us to sit during our "show".

Dodi, Sunny & Alyssa. Poor Sunny was really NOT digging all the booming sounds in the neighborhood, or the flashes in the sky.

Dodi & Kerry

We ended the evening with this delicious "Patriotic Cheesecake" made by Dodi. It was SO good!

Love Letters from Sea - Sentimental Sunday No. 46

2010-07-04T00:20:00.000-07:00

Mom and Dad were married September 13, 1941. This is the first letter I have that was written after they were married.
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October 5, 1941

My Darling Wife,

I have been thinking about you hour after hour, and missing you more and more with the passing of each lonely minute. It seems as though the minutes are hours and the hours are one year. Oh darling, I miss you so. I feel as if I just can’t last another day until I see you, although I get a little comfort in just sitting here and thinking of you, but again I begin to miss you so much more.

You know sweetheart, I feel sorry for some of these fellows on here, not being able to love their wives as much as I love you. After all, you’re my greatest happiness and you’re all I’ve ever wanted and just having you to love and adore is happiness enough to overcome all other hardships of not being able to be with you all of the time. It won’t be like this in exactly 11 months and 29 days. That’s when I get paid off and then I can be with you all of the time.

My darling, I love you so very much. If only they would pay me off now I’d be so pleased that I’d probably say I liked the Navy. But, as long as I have to stay in I’m going to do my work and keep my nose clean.

If you miss me darling, as much as I miss you, then I know you must feel awfully empty and lost. I feel as if I’m alone in the world when I’m not with you. You’ve even become a part of me. You have my heart and soul. In other words, I am a zombie when away from you. I feel like I’m dead and I know I act it.

Well my darling, I must close and go eat chow, or else I won’t get any, so I’ll say bye now and I love you with all of my heart and soul. I love you. I love you.

Your loving and adoring husband,
Johnny

I love you.
I love you.
I adore you darling.
XXXXXX I love you XXXXXX
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So sad that he thought he would be out of the Navy by October 1942. (He had enlisted in the summer of 1937 when he was only 17 years old) Of course, we now know that Pearl Harbor was only 2 months away from this letter.

Dad stayed in the Navy until 1944 when he was honorably discharged due to critical injuries sustained in an auto accident while transporting a patient from Long Beach to San Diego.

A Little Break

2010-06-30T17:12:00.000-07:00

I'm taking a few vacation days to make the long weekend even longer.

Richard and I got away to the movies this afternoon. We saw the Tom Cruise and Cameron Diaz movie, "Knight and Day".

Really fun film. Lots of action, some enjoyable laughs, and tiny bit of romance. I know the movie hasn't done very well at the box office, but we really liked it and gave it "Two Thumbs Up".

Letters from Sea - Sentimental Sunday No. 45

2010-06-27T00:09:00.000-07:00

Cleaning out our garage I found the love letters that my father wrote to my mother during World War II, when he was in the Navy. I knew that I had them, but haven’t seen them in 20 years. I had never read all of them – only a couple. After they passed away it was just too difficult for me to go through all of their belongings. I’m so glad that I finally sat down and read them. Priceless. Amazing how deep and strong their love was. There are two years worth of letters from him, and over the course of the next several months I will transcribe some of them. I hope you enjoy them as much as I do. My Dad loved my Mother until the ends of the Earth. He knew he had found “the one” when he met her. They were married until death parted them.
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April 15, 1941

Darling,

Hello Sweetheart. I just finished work so I’ll write to you. We’re off the coast of Santa Barbara and it’s 4pm. Pretty good time don’t you think so? It’s only been but a few hours since I saw you, but it already seems like a year. I’d much rather be in L.A., then I could see you, baby duck.

Honey, I’m so sleepy that I don’t hardly know whether it is night or day. It’s all I can do to keep awake and do my work, no lie. But I’m not too sleepy to remember what I said and asked you last night. And, honey I want you to know that I am sincere in what I said. In fact, after I think it over I like the idea more and more. So you see honey, I’m not handing you any lies, so please don’t mistrust me.

I sure hope there is a letter from you waiting for me in Frisco. And Honey, please don’t forget to make your letters long. I am sure sorry I had to leave this morning, because as you know I would much rather spend my time with you. I already miss you so much that I’m anxious for this trip to end.

Well honey, we just got a guy that was battered up a bit, so I’ll close. Bye Sweet, and answer soon.

Loving you always,
Johnny

P.S. Ich liebe dich
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Dad had asked Mom to marry him the night before he wrote this letter. They had met only two months prior through mutual friends, Betty & Goss.

The "Delicious Dishes" Reunion

2010-06-11T23:43:00.000-07:00

About 12 years ago my friend Tracey and I started a group called "The Delicious Dishes". There were 16 of us at one time, and eventually there were 20. Quarterly we planned really extravagant and special evenings. We stayed together for about 3 years. Since then we've had one reunion, and tonight we had another. Most of us are still friends - but we don't see each other often. So, the reunion potluck we had tonight was a blast! Great food and drink - but more importantly LOTS of laughter. I am SO lucky to have such great girlfriends.

Lorraine & Adrienne

Adrienne & Me
Peggy & Mary Louise

Tracey & Tammy

Kathleen & Teri

Lorraine, Adrienne & Peggy

Laura & Me

Unfortunately some of our friends have moved away - but we stay in touch with them. And, some of our group couldn't make it tonight. But, there may be another reunion in the works for autumn. I would totally be up for that! We had a FANTASTIC time tonight.

Celebrate

2010-06-06T09:03:00.000-07:00

On Wednesday night I gave a 40th birthday party for two of my Ya Ya sisters. Laura and Kathy will both be 40 in a few days. All of the Ya Ya's were here to celebrate in 1970 style.

Brenda & Adrienne enjoying the fun.

Jamie & Me

The table was decorated in 1970's chic! We played 1970 Trivia, as well as other fun games about our favorite TV shows and Movies! I asked everyone for their favorite songs from their favorite decade of their lifetime, and made an awesome playlist out of them on my iPod. The Ya Ya's make up a pretty fantastic playlist!

The birthday girls asked me to make my Strawberry & Whip Cream cake. (Click here if you'd like the recipe from my Gumbo YaYa blog.) But the highlight of the evening had to be "cheese in a can". We made foods that were popular in the '70s. I'm not saying that we had a little too much fun with the Cheez Wiz... but, you can be the judge!

Wishing two of my very best friends a spectacular birthday! I had fun planning it for you and wish you all the best during your new decade!

Genealogy - Sentimental Sunday No. 44

2010-05-23T10:30:00.000-07:00

This is my maternal Grandfather with my Mom. He was born in 1894.

My memories of him are good ones. He lived about 2 hours away from us when I was growing up. We would visit a couple of times per year. Every time we visited we would go out to dinner at various local restaurants. In the 1970's there weren't a lot of really fabulous choices in Hemet. I recall a couple of his favorites, and we always went to dinner quite early. Usually around 4pm. I remember that he enjoyed a cocktail before dinner and his favorite was a Brandy Alexander.

My Grandma Mary passed away in the late 1960's, and Grandpa never remarried. When he moved out of their home into a mobile home park down the street - he was quite popular with all the widows. Several times a few of them would come to visit him while we were there. At the time I didn't think anything of it. Now, I look back at how they would all fuss over him and it makes me giggle. Today I understand what a commodity an older gentleman is with the widows.

Grandpa was in World War I. Here is a photo of him with some of his unit. He is in the middle. My Uncle told me that only two men from his unit returned from the war. So sad.

Grandpa and my Grandma Maurine were my mom's parents. They divorced when my Mom was very young. However, this photo that I found, dated in 1930, indicates that perhaps they tried to reconcile at one point. Alas, it didn't work out. She ultimately married another man - and he married my Grandma Mary in the mid '30s.

Grandpa died in the early '80s. I miss our visits and early bird dinners with him. One of my prized possessions is a cherry-wood breakfront hutch. It belonged to Grandpa for many years. I treasure it and think of him when I look at it. When I open a drawer or door on it, I remember that these handles and this wood was touched by his hands as well. It brings me comfort to know that I can pass this on to my son and he will have something that belonged to his Great Grandfather. And, while a 15 year old boy doesn't find interest in this today - I hope that someday he will appreciate the history.

Robin Hood - The Movie

2010-05-15T13:25:00.000-07:00

Although the reviews haven't been stellar, we saw "Robin Hood" starring Russell Crowe & Cate Blanchett last night.

I must say that I completely disagree with the reviews. I love that Ridley Scott did not make another movie about the same Robin Hood cliches we seen time and time again.

It was a wonderful story and enjoyable film. Both Richard and I really liked it!

Spoon's NW Bistro

2010-05-13T22:10:00.000-07:00

I met a friend for an early dinner at Spoon's NW Bistro tonight, on Commercial SE in Salem. It was VERY good and I'll be sure to plan return visits.

We both had the Seafood Linguine. There were plenty of shrimp and mussels and crab was sprinkled throughout. Quite tasty. We even saved room for 5 Layer Chocolate Cake. Decadent and extremely delicious. I'm glad we shared it, because even with two of us eating it - we couldn't quite finish it off.

The service was wonderful and the entire evening was quite pleasant. They weren't very busy. Perhaps, people aren't aware they are open for dinner. I wasn't aware of that until my friend suggested we eat there.

I highly recommend you make a trip to Spoon's. Quite enjoyable!

Genealogy - Sentimental Sunday No. 43

2010-04-25T11:57:00.000-07:00

1856 - 1948

This is my Great Grandfather, Lewis B. Heslet. The more I research my family tree - the more gems I uncover.

My Uncle told me that Lewis was a blacksmith. He's looking for a photo to send me of Lewis in his blacksmith shop. I can't wait!

While googling some of my ancestors names I discovered that Lewis had applied for a patent and was approved in 1911. The patent was for a machine which sharpened plow shares. Here is an excerpt of the patent:

This invention relates to machines for sharpening plow shares, and it has for its object to produce a machine of this class of simple and efficient construction in which the plow share, after being adjusted in position for operation, may be automatically ground or sharpened without further attention on the part of the operator.

I don't know how successful the machine was, or how long it may have been in operation. More research on my part is needed. But, I was pretty excited to find this piece of information. The more tidbits I discover about my ancestors - the more excited I am to continue researching.

Back to Reality

2010-04-24T08:03:00.000-07:00

It is so hard getting back into the swing of things after vacation. Returning to work and school - trying to get the house back in order - just getting back to the daily "living of life".

How much more fun things would be if it were vacation EVERY day. But, I suppose THEN it wouldn't be as special... but I sure wouldn't mind giving it a try for a while. (Hey, a girl can dream - can't she?)

New Orleans Trip - The End

2010-04-11T12:02:00.000-07:00

Our last full day in NOLA was spectacular. The weather was perfect and we had a relaxing and fun filled day planned.

We made reservations for lunch at Commander's Palace. This restaurant is a New Orleans institution. We had never been before - so we were looking forward to a treat!

Our good friends, Tom & Kris, suggested that we make our reservations for the Garden Room. It was really beautiful. Great suggestion! Thanks guys.
The "$.25 Martini Lunch" is supposedly the best kept secret in town. It isn't well advertised - unless you go the website. We had a delicious meal - and a couple of equally delicious martini's. I couldn't believe our bar bill was only $1.00 ! Amazing!

After lunch we took some pictures outside the restaurant - and then headed across the street to the Lafayette Cemetery.

After our visit to the Garden District we headed back into the French Quarter for one last walk and look around the city that we love SO much!

The gorgeous St. Louis Cathedral -

A happy and handsome boy sitting on the steps of Jackson Square.

And a final photo from Pirates Alley.

We have been home for two weeks. We already miss the Crescent City. We're planning our return visit - probably sometime in the summer of 2011. Our hearts are always renewed in the city that we love so much!

New Orleans Adventure - Part Three

2010-04-08T21:21:00.000-07:00

We began this day by walking to the Civil War Museum. It was established in 1891 - and Jefferson Davis, the President of the Confederacy, had a huge hand in making sure that this memorial was established. This building is the oldest museum in Louisiana.

They don't allow photographs to be taken of the individual exhibits - but they do allow photos from the front door. It's a really beautiful building, filled with wonderful and sentimental memorabilia. I was amazed at how small in stature the men were. Their uniforms looked so small to me. We were able to see Robert E. Lee's mess kit - with his monogrammed silver ware. What a gem.

We made lunch reservations to eat a Muriel's on Jackson Square. It had come highly recommended by three different friends - so we had to try it. Wonderful doesn't come close to describing what a fantastic lunch we had there. We loved the ambiance of the restaurant and the service was impeccable. A real treat - and we highly recommend eating there if you're ever in NOLA.
After lunch we went to the Louisiana State Museum at the Cabildo - on Jackson Square.

What treasure trove this is! Original outfits from the 1800's

A slave collar from the 1840's - this was a very sobering exhibit for me. How sad to think of human beings treated like animals.
The beautiful second floor level where parties were held. The room off this receiving room was where the Louisiana Purchase was transferred.

Quite a bit of memorabilia belonging to Napoleon.

And his death mask. Truly a unique treasure.

And last, but not least, the piano that belonged to Fats Domino. It sat in his home in the Lower Ninth Ward in the flood waters after Hurricane Katrina. I got so sad looking at it. All the feelings of loss washed over me all over again.

One more day to blog. It makes me sad all over again - we love New Orleans so much. There is always such excitement when we are planning and preparing for our trips there. And then the sadness of having to leave sets in. (sad face)

The Crescent City - Part Two

2010-04-02T17:46:00.000-07:00

Day four of our trip, to the beautiful city of New Orleans, found us travelling to the Garden District on the historic St. Charles Street Car. It's always an experience to take the street car and enjoy the sights of another section of NOLA.

We walked to a local neighborhood "joint" called Parasol's for their famous roast beef po-boys. Parasol's has been featured on the Food Network as well as several magazines. Their po-boys were fantastic and worth the trip to the Garden District.

We wandered through the "GD" and ooh'd and ahh'd at all of the gorgeous homes. I could SO see myself living in one of these beauty's. I think I would fit right in!

While waiting to catch the streetcar to head back to the condo, we noticed that the trees and a few street lamps still looked like they were celebrating Mardi Gras - we couldn't believe how many beads were draped in the trees! It was really pretty!
Our special dinner at a special restaurant was planned for that night. He doesn't look it in the photo below, but we had one excited 15 year old. We were going to one of Emeril LaGasse's restaurants - Delmonico. We've been to Emeril's two other restaurants in New Orleans - so this trip completed our tour of his establishments. The food was excellent and the restaurant itself was gorgeous, very stately.

It was a great fourth day. Stay tuned for the last two days of our trip in part three!

The Crescent City - Part One

2010-03-28T12:57:00.000-07:00

Ah, New Orleans! Our favorite vacation destination. We love going to NOLA. It's a fabulous city and one that we repeatedly visit and anticipate traveling to. We just returned from another GREAT trip to the "city that care forgot".

Upon our arrival we headed to two of our favorite destinations - The Crescent City Brewhouse and Cafe du Monde. The Brewhouse has a great food and really excellent beers. Our favorite is the Red Stallion. So yummy. We had a wonderful meal and then strolled around the French Quarter. We watched some very talented street performers and had beignets at Cafe du Monde.

The next day we enjoyed shopping and strolling through the Quarter. Our favorite brunch spot is Court of Two Sisters. The Jazz Brunch is AMAZING. So much food - we were all SO full and decided not have dinner that night. Of course, by 9pm a certain 15 year old was begging for beignet's again. So, we found ourselves headed back to Cafe du Monde. We had beignets EVERY DAY during our trip. Between those and all the wonderful meals - I was quite surprised that I didn't gain any weight on our eating extravaganza. It's certainly due to the amount of walking that we do while in NOLA.

Day three we rented a car to drive to Avery Island. This is the home of Tabasco sauce. We visited the plant and toured the wonderful Jungle Garden grounds and bird sanctuary. The signs warning us of the dangers of the alligators really cracked us up. I guess there are some not so intelligent people out there that may believe these are "tame" alligators. Too funny!

One of our favorite parts of this day trip was breakfast at a Waffle House. Call us crazy - but we LOVE Waffle House. Good food, affordable price and just plain fun. Sure wish we had a Waffle House in Salem. Of course, then it wouldn't be so special to eat there.

When we returned to New Orleans we made reservations for a late supper at K-Paul's Louisiana Kitchen. This is Chef Paul Prudhomme's restaurant. It was SO good and our waiter suggested the most fabulous chardonnay to go along with our meal. It was Rombauer Carneros 2008 Chardonnay. Really delicious.

So, stay tuned for a posting on the second half of our trip. We had a really wonderful time - but the week flew by all too quickly. I'm still not sure why the work week doesn't seem to go as quickly as a vacation week. Just doesn't seem fair!

Have You Seen...

2010-03-13T09:12:00.000-08:00

photo from the Guardian.co.uk

...the new NBC show, "The Marriage Ref"? I had heard from a friend that it was really funny. We watched it for the first time last Thursday night. Madonna, Ricky Gervais & Larry David were on the panel. The show is freakin' hilarious! Married couples submit videos of a particular ongoing argument that they are having. Then the ref, Tom Pappas, along with the guest panel decide who should win the argument. Some of these couples are "crazy"! And, I thought Richard and I had stupid arguments!

Catch it on Thursday nights at 10pm on NBC. It's quite funny - at least the one episode we saw was.

Integrity - Sentimental Sunday No. 42

2010-03-07T00:12:00.000-08:00

Well, this isn’t so much a “Sentimental Sunday” as it is a reflection on some recent events in my life. My father raised me with a strong sense of integrity. He taught me the difference between right and wrong and instilled in me the necessity to always try to do the right thing – even when it is really difficult.

I would say that I am a good listener, and that many of my friends come to me for advice and guidance. When asked not to say anything to others about a secret – I don’t. A good friend of mine says about herself, “I’m a good secret keeper”. And she most definitely is. I like to think that I am a good secret keeper too. But, recently someone told me something that required I take action. I had no choice. What they told me wasn’t told in confidence; it was actually shared quite innocently. But, I could not sit idly by and not do something. I’m sorry I can’t be more specific with the circumstances – it wouldn’t be right to share them in this forum. But, I’ve been torn up about my decision to take action – and I’ve damaged a friendship in the process.

There is no doubt in my mind that I made the right choice. No doubt that I did what I had to do. Those that know what happened agree that it was my responsibility to take action and if I hadn’t it could have had serious repercussions for me. But, none of that really makes me feel too much better. I am sad that my friend feels our relationship has changed. She has told me she isn’t mad and doesn’t hold a grudge – but she doesn’t know how to act around me now.

Reflecting on this situation I ask myself – would I do it all over again? Would I still take the same action? The answer is yes, I would. My conscience wouldn’t allow me to do anything different. If the friendship is lost I will be very sad, and that will be a high price to pay. However, not being true to me and my values would have been a higher price to pay. One of my favorite quotes is, “Integrity -- When you do the right thing even though no one is watching..” No one was watching – I probably could have gotten away with not taking action – who would have known? Answer: Me. And THAT would have been more difficult for me to live with.